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Where does it hurt most?
I forget sometimes. Do you?

I forget sometimes.
I forget to be kind. To myself. To the people I love. To strangers I'll never see again.
I forget — and then I remember. And the return, I think, is just as important as the intention.
Maybe more?
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And because I forget — I've been thinking about a question.
Not a motivational question.
A real one. The kind that, if you sit with it, actually changes something.
In which area of your life does not being kind hurt the most?
Is it with your mother? Your father? Your sibling? Your child?
Is it with your business partner? Your colleague? Your employee? Your boss?
Is it with your lover or partner?
Is it with yourself?
In which area of your life does not being kind cost you the most — in money, in energy, in coherence, in peace?
You can name one. You can name two or three. But especially — how is impacting you and what you care about?
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I ask because this is where we want to focus first.
Not on the whole mountain. On the most critical part.
The one that, if you took it, would change everything downstream.
You can answer right here — with audio, video, or text. I read every one.
👉 Reply to this email — or share your answer with me via whatsapp.
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We're in this together.
The most conscious world isn't built by a few extraordinary people.
It's built by ordinary people making extraordinary kind choices — again and again.
I believe you are already one of them, if not you would not be here.
Loto
Founder at Hawimi
The Most Conscious World, One Choice Away™
P.S. The Hawimi Kindness Inner Circle is still open — 12 people maximum, 8 weeks minimum. If this kindness and integrity journey touches something tender in you, the Circle is where we go deeper together. If you feel that it is for you DM me here “Inner Circle”