Until you make the subconscious conscious, it runs your life.

Jung said: until you make the subconscious conscious, it will run your life and you'll call it destiny.

I've been sitting with that for a while.

Because the reality — the one I keep coming back to — is this:

Your destiny is what you decide.

And it only takes one thing:

To know what you want so clearly... that you can feel it as happening right now.

Maybe holding hands with your child or partner. Maybe peace in your chest in every step you take. Or money arriving without chasing ever again. Or living in Bali surrounded by rice fields and tropical jungle. Or maybe love making that is both deeply physical and yet — somehow — cosmic…

That clarity. That feeling. That is the beginning.

Then comes the tracking.

What you track you improve, what you share you accelerate.

(If you wanna join me (free), I track it here every day)

Every day, one question. Less than two minutes:

Which percentage of the last 24 hours have I been feeling what I truly want, being the change I want to see and feel?

You can review every area of your life. Or you can summarize it in one feeling.

I call it experiencing paradise.

A friend calls it bliss. Others: love, abundance, freedom.

Just by asking — every day, less than two minutes — your brain, your soul, your body start to align. And your actions start to align. And your results start to align.

It sounds simple. It is. And also so powerful. It works.

But I've learned something else.

If I only rely on my own resources — my ego, my limited personality — I hit a ceiling. My ego has taken me here. But it cannot take me to my dreams. For that, I need more.

So I pray. (A friend told me: meditating is listening to God. Praying is talking to God. I do both — listening, talking, listening. A good sandwich.)


Please Infinite (or Love, God, Universe, Life, whichever way you call the intelligence behind all the harmony of the universe)…

Please Infinite give me everything that I want. And

And I need a circle.

I need humans with whom I feel so safe that I can reveal my deepest secrets. With whom I can share what I most want to hide.

I can share things with AI. And there's something magic about it — there's no fear of being judged. But it's different with humans.

Because with humans, I project the fear of judgment. And to stop projecting it — I need to meet it. I need to stop judging myself.

The only reason I ever care if others judge me is because I'm still judging myself.

A circle is a place where we agree: no judgment. Only I-statements. Only perception, not right or wrong.

And in that space — where we listen without judging, where we speak and listen with care and consent — everything heals.

When judgment leaves, freedom comes. Love comes.

Paradise comes.

That's what we do at Hawimi.

We Chose Kindness — with ourselves and each other.

That's what we do in the circles. That's what the app is building toward — still in beta, still learning, still growing. Until we inspire nine billion humans to embrace kindness as the answer to every experience.

Every time you choose kindness, you are my hero. My inspiration.

 Thank you.

Loto

Founder at Hawimi

The Most Conscious World, One Choice Away™

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