I felt it when I was three years old.

I was three years old.

And I felt it for the first time.

Something was wrong.

My bigger friends, the ones I thought were there to protect me — to care for me, with my consent — did something that was clearly not with my consent. Clearly not caring for me.

I didn't have the words then. But the body knows.

Something is off.

This doesn’t feel safe.

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I've spent decades since then paying attention.

And here's what I've noticed:

It's not just me.

It's not just my family.

It's everywhere. Not everyone, all the time. But almost everyone, some of the time. Including me. Including you — probably.

It seems like we live in a world where the norm is:

Compete and win, or lose.

There isn't enough for everyone.

To care for myself, I have to stop caring for others.

If you want something, manipulate.

If you can get away with it — do it.

Whether it's a government or a company or a mom with her son or a partner with a partner. Not necessarily from a mean intention, but out of ignorance of a better way. Sad…

It seems like,

This is the operating system.

And it has been running — quietly, automatically — since before we were born.

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I've been reading a book. The Path of Least Resistance.

The author makes a point I can't stop thinking about:

You don't fix a broken paradigm by solving its problems.

You replace it.

For centuries, astronomers tried to explain the planets by assuming Earth was the center of the universe. They built elaborate theories. Corrections. Patches.

It didn't work — because the paradigm was wrong.

When Copernicus said: what if the Sun is the center? — everything simplified. Suddenly the math worked. Suddenly reality made sense.

The current paradigm — compete, manipulate better, win — is the old astronomy.

We keep solving problems within it. More laws. More drugs. More therapy. More hustle. More defense budget.

But the paradigm doesn't lead where we want to go.

We want paradise, true wellbeing. Individually and collectively.

Increasing well-being, forever.

Abundance for all — not just for some.

The current paradigm will not get us there.

We need Copernicus.

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Here is the new paradigm:

Kindness.

Not the diluted version. Not the always easy version. Not the soft, pleasing version.

Hawimi Kindness — with a this specific definition:

Act always, and only, with consent and care, from and for myself and the others involved

That's it.

And:

If at any moment I forget — I am open to being reminded. And I come back. Back to consent. Back to care.

I've been living this for a while now.

And I want to tell you — it works.

More peace, deeper connection and integrity with myself and everyone else. Even with mum. My friends. With my dad. With my business. With my tribe. With my sales. Even with my marketing — that I used to hate.

More More able to manifest what I truly want. Without forcing. Without chasing. Without betraying myself.

It seems to me that,

Kindness is the Key, to Paradise…

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So here is what I'm proposing.

Not a philosophy class.

Not a motivational post.

A nation.

A Kindness Global Nation — of humans who sign this agreement.

I agree to act always, and only, with consent and care, from and for myself and the others involved

If I forget — I welcome the reminder. And I come back.

That's the whole thing.

No creed. No hierarchy. No exclusivity.

Just humans agreeing to live always from kindness.

The Hawimi tribe — the ones who have already signed — are the beginning of it.

And you're invited.

Read it. Question it. Criticise it. That's how we learn.

I'd love to know what you think. Reply to this or text me in whatsapp if you want.

And share it (here the link) with someone who might feel it even more.

Thank you for following yourself.

Thank you for every time you choose kindness.

Loto

Founder at Hawimi™

We Choose Kindness

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PS If you don’t only want to read but also be surrounded every week by others committed to leave it:

Maximum 12 people.

Making paradise normal again.

Like when we were kids — before the world taught us to settle. With integrity higher than it's ever been. And manifesting so useful, so natural, so effortless — like never before.

If this calls you:

👉 All the details and how to join are → here